When I Grow Up
Darius Tabane
I believe that all babies are born with a predestined purpose. A purpose to impact the world so that the Earth grows to greater heights. But in order to have an impact on the world, we should grow ourselves first. We should learn that pain, sacrifices, knowledge, understanding, love and inner peace are all needed for us to grow and become the best versions of ourselves.
What is your predestined purpose? It is all the dreams that you imagined when you were asked as a child what you wanted to be when you grew up. Why as a child? That’s because you didn’t know what doubt and limitations were. And now that you remember those dreams, it’s time for you to grow into becoming your dream version of yourself.
‘Before I began reading When I Grow Up, I found myself asking the question that the author said I would be asking in his introduction to the book: “What can an 18-year-old boy who hasn’t lived in the real world teach me?” I read on anyway. I was eventually astounded by the depth of understanding displayed by one so young, and enchanted by the fresh and, yes, childlike perception that Darius Tabane brings to the enduring and often overworked issues that face us all.’
Theo Garrun, Author and Former Newspaper Editor, INL.
‘This book is a profound journey of life lessons - it is startling that it is written by a teenager and gives credence to the adage that it is not the years in your life that matter but the life in those years. Many adults can take life lessons from this simple read; from how to develop their purpose in life to how to believe in themselves to live life to the fullest. The book explores key themes that shape self-mastery better than many self-help books that I have read. The examples and anecdotes shared make it highly relatable. The author is a bridge between the generations and there is no doubt that his wisdom is light years ahead of his age.’
Dr Onkgopotse JJ Tabane (PhD Wits), Editor Leadership Magazine,
Author and TV Talk Show Host.
‘This book will teach you how to get over your fears. If you are young and want to open up to a new world of possibilities, this book is definitely for you. I also recommend it to adults who are still trying to find their true purpose.’
Miriam Dube, Blogger, Author, and 2020 Top 100 Influential Young South Africans.
‘Wisdom is matured with age but has no “age” and most importantly (and often forgotten), wisdom has no “age limit”. That’s what Darius demonstrates as he takes us through his insightful life story with lessons and gems from which both the young and old can benefit.’
Harmony Katulondi, Social media influencer and Economics Graduate,
SABC 3 Presenter and Ambassador Search Finalist.